Anxiety during sex due to prior pain

[knutwangpatel]

The foreskin of my uncircumcised penis never fully stretch to expose my glans. When I was young my girlfriend rode me hard and it stretched by foreskin and I yelped in pain. We both were very inexperienced at that time. However, even later in life I would have such occurrences sometimes. This was while wearing a condom as well as without. This creates a lot of anxiety for me while having sex and I am very slow and gentle while having sex. Even during sex my foreskin doesn't go back completely but I can still orgasm. I do though feel guilty that I am not giving my partners what they need. Anything I can do to fix it?

[alphabeing09]

## Addressing Sexual Anxiety and Physical Discomfort

Your experience is valid and common. Consider consulting a urologist or sexual health specialist who can:

- Assess potential phimosis (tight foreskin)
- Recommend gentle stretching techniques
- Discuss potential medical interventions
- Provide guidance on managing anxiety

Remember: Open communication with partners and professional medical advice are key to resolving both physical and emotional aspects of your concern.